Do you dream of spending the rest of your life with someone who loves you more than life itself? We want to help make that dream a reality. Are you already married, or in a love relationship, and wish things were going better? We want to help make that a reality too.
We’re not the only ones offering to help. But we’re different. Better.
You could try a matchmaking service that offers to find a compatible match for you. But that person probably won’t be the person of your dreams. We take a different approach. We don’t help you find the ideal match for the person you are now. We help you become the perfect match for the person of your dreams. We help you become the person in other people’s dreams. And in the process you may even become a love expert. That’s better.
You could try to step up your game by spending a lot of money on new clothes, a new car, a new apartment, dancing lessons, or whatever else you hope might make you more attractive to the person of your dreams. We take a different approach. We don’t just focus on making you look more appealing. Forget the fancy clothes and hairstyles, expensive cars, and all the other things competing for your money. These may get you noticed, and may even make you appear desirable. For a while. But few people marry cars or clothing. And those who do usually find that the dream ends badly. We not only want your dream to come true, we want it to last. That’s better.
In the 2005 movie, Hitch, Will Smith plays the part of Alex “Hitch” Hitchens, a professional dating consultant who claims that “no matter what, no matter when, no matter who… any man has a chance to sweep any woman off her feet. He just needs the right broom.” Hitch believed in externals. Get the appearance right, get the circumstances right, get the moves right, and everything will turn out right. Sounds good, but it doesn’t work. At least not for long. We take a different approach.
To find true love you have to understand love. You have to know how to both give and receive love. And you have to know the difference between love and sentiment; because while sentiment can cause you to long for love, actively expressing love brings you into love’s presence. Once you’re there you won’t have to worry about finding true love, because true love will find you.
Guys, it’s not about finding her; it’s about being him. If you’re him, she’ll find you.
Ladies, it’s not about finding him, it’s about being her. If you’re her, he’ll find you.
But you have to really be him or her. You can’t just be pretending. They’ll know.
This site is about learning to love. Really love. It’s about turning loving thoughts into loving actions, and in so doing, finding the love that has been eluding us. It’s about finding the love we are seeking by becoming the love that others are seeking. Yes, this is a different approach. And it works.
For everyone who wishes that their love life was better, welcome to better. And for everyone who has experienced the joy of both giving and receiving love, and who has learned the secret of being the love that others are seeking, we invite you to encourage others on this site by sharing what you’ve learned, and we thank you in advance for your contributions. Together we can all learn to love, and in so doing we can make our lives, our families, and our communities better.